Oh, Liz, how right you are. Some times we just have to put our big girl panties on & roll with the punches. I know, harder said than done but there is only one thing you can control & that is yourself & how you feel. If you put all your emotions into someone else, you're not going to be happy. So, ladies, get your heads out of your asses, live YOUR life the way that YOU need to & just be thankful for the positive things in your life or you're going to miserable messes. Amen, bitches!